In the spirit of Diwali, the festival of lights, our visit to Mata Gujri Sukh Niwas Old Age Home in Khanpur Kharar on this auspicious day of Dhanteras, 10th November 2023, was a profound experience of sharing joy and warmth. The celebration was not just about lights and decorations, but about illuminating the lives of those who often remain in the shadows of society – the elderly.
A Diwali to Remember
As we entered the vibrantly decorated premises, adorned with flowers and intricate Rangoli, a sense of warmth enveloped us. News 18 was present, capturing this special event, highlighting the importance of caring for our elders. The celebration was modest yet deeply meaningful, involving our wheelchair patients who came to share heartwarming moments with the senior citizens.
Spreading Warmth and Joy
Our team distributed warm clothes, Diwali sweets, and snacks accompanied by tea, bringing smiles to many faces. It was an emotional moment, engaging in heartfelt conversations, exchanging stories, and sharing happy moments. Each senior citizen we met had a unique story, a life rich with experiences, yet tinged with the sadness of being left by their families.
New Bonds of Family
What stood out was the resilience and hope that shone in their eyes. Despite the heartbreak of abandonment, they had found a new family within the walls of Mata Gujri Sukh Niwas. The staff and fellow residents had formed bonds of care and affection, proving that family isn’t just about blood relations, but about who stands by you in your hour of need.
Learning from Our Elders
The day was not just about giving but also about receiving – receiving blessings, wisdom, and insights from lives well-lived. Their stories were a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the capacity for love and forgiveness.
Reflecting on Society’s Role
The visit was a stark reminder of the societal neglect often faced by the elderly. It’s heartbreaking to witness such abandonment, raising questions about our duties towards our aging parents. However, the light of hope and the spirit of togetherness shone brightly, reminding us that compassion and empathy can make a significant difference.
As we left Mata Gujri Sukh Niwas, we carried with us not just memories but a renewed sense of responsibility towards the elderly in our society. The SHSG Team’s appreciation for the Old Age Home was profound, and the experience was a reminder that together, we can indeed make society a better place. As Helen Keller aptly said, “Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much.” This Diwali, let’s pledge to spread more light and love, especially to those who need it the most.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
Q: What is the significance of visiting old age homes during festivals?
A: Visiting old age homes during festivals like Diwali is significant because it brings joy and a sense of belonging to the elderly, who often feel isolated and neglected. It’s a way to share the festive spirit with those who may not have family around.
Q: How can individuals contribute to old age homes?
A: Individuals can contribute by volunteering their time, donating necessities like clothes and food, or simply by spending time and engaging with the residents, providing them with companionship and emotional support.
Q: What are the common challenges faced by the elderly in old age homes?
A: Common challenges include feelings of loneliness, health issues, and sometimes a sense of abandonment. Regular interaction and proper healthcare facilities are essential to address these issues.
Q: How can society help in improving the lives of the elderly?
A: Society can help by raising awareness about the importance of caring for the elderly, supporting old age homes through funding and resources, and encouraging family members to maintain strong bonds with their aging relatives.
Q: Can visits to old age homes be educational for younger generations?
A: Absolutely. Visits to old age homes can teach younger generations about empathy, respect for the elderly, and the importance of family and community support in every stage of life.
